SO this is my first blog in a long time. Havnt had really anything that stood out but now that i think about it more i seriuosly think i have so much to tell i really dont know where to start!!!
Someone once told me that saying sorry meant you will never do it again, and that is what i havnt taken it to mean and everytime i say it i really wont do it again, that saying stuck with me and everytime someone said SORRY to me i would tell them what it meant and if they ever did the same thing again that was it, NO more.
But you know some people find it as a way out of things, an excuse, a meaning less word that gets them out of trouble.
And i could say that probably 80% of the time the person saying it doesnt mean it.
Which is really disapointing, especially when it comes from someone you really want to except it from and think they will never do those things again. But you know what when someone does something wrong unless they get punishment for the crime they have committed against you they will do it again.
When you get hurt once, they are the fool, get hurt twice just hope and pray to god they wont do it again, but when its the third time and nothing is going to change your the idiot who is sucked in to the web of a great liar and suck ass.
Sometimes no matter how much you love someone or how much you need them you just have to let them go. No matter how many times they say sorry or beg for your forgiveness a person has one chance to change and if they dont they never will.
So many of us get caught in a trap, you love someone so much all you want to believ is that they will change, but when the evidence says otherwise there is just a time you let go and forget them.
So what does sorry mean to you???
Im sick and tired of hearing that word. It used to mean moral and value to me and now it means nothing. You hear a word over and over again and it just starts to become a habit.
When it comes to using the brain and the heart together, do not always trust your heart your brain is what will keep you safe!!!
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So true people dont deserve forgivness most of the time, people never change its habbit just like saying sorry unless people are willing 100% to change they wont, if they love you enough the will change, if they dont they just take you for the sucker you are and play you along for everything they can!
ReplyDeleteUntill you wake up and realise that one chance you gave turned into ten! and they still ask what they have done wrong everytime
It's not worth it! You love someone enought to give them the chance but in the end you only hurt yourself by beliving they love you enough to change but they dont!