Love
Quote "loving someone is your own feeling, but showing love in only a way you can express it to the other person is what really matters"
love is so much more than saying it all the time and making sure the point gets across and heard, its showing love in only a way you can truly mean it and truly show it and be passionate about it towards the other person.
Its not in the things you say, its in the things you do.
Actions speak louder than words!!!
Love to me is so much more than having the feelings. You need the person to respond to you physically and emotionally, i think without this there is just no relationship.
The connection or spark relys on these forms of communication to stay alive and well in a relationship otherwise there is nothing.
I find people only ever show one side, and for men alot of this is physical and for women emotional, but women also arnt afraid to show physical either. Where as men they think they get called too sensitive or gay if they show emotion. Its not wrong to show it (in small doses), but even just showing it once in a while atleast lets the women know it is there in the first place and you are not completely emotionless.
Anyway this is my take on love and emotions
chioa bella
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Happiness
Happiness
is so very hard to find and when you do have, you always ask yourself the question of how long it is going to last?
Well dont we all wish we had the answer to what seems such a simple question
What i really want to know is where to find happiness and what is it supposed to mean to your self?
I find happiness is something that can come from many different things friends, love, religion, career, family, travel, life experience, living and just life in general.
But why does it always seem as though when you have all these things lined up and you think that everything is great all your ducks are in a row. That one of these things falls down, the walls around you break and all of a sudden the all perfect life you had just becomes very depressing.
Nothing seems to make you happy anymore you had it and if your just going to lose it again whats the point in fighting to get it back. This is the state of mind i am in at the moment, my whole life has broken down, i have fought all of my life and now i just dont think i have any more fight left in me. Everything fell apart and i lost all motivation to keep going, i have no energy.
So i want my fight back!
All i want is to be happy and the only thing i am really happy with at the moment is my love life, yet that is on the verge of being ruined and the other thing is with my friends. One in particular you know who you are- You keep me sane!!!!
Chaio bella
is so very hard to find and when you do have, you always ask yourself the question of how long it is going to last?
Well dont we all wish we had the answer to what seems such a simple question
What i really want to know is where to find happiness and what is it supposed to mean to your self?
I find happiness is something that can come from many different things friends, love, religion, career, family, travel, life experience, living and just life in general.
But why does it always seem as though when you have all these things lined up and you think that everything is great all your ducks are in a row. That one of these things falls down, the walls around you break and all of a sudden the all perfect life you had just becomes very depressing.
Nothing seems to make you happy anymore you had it and if your just going to lose it again whats the point in fighting to get it back. This is the state of mind i am in at the moment, my whole life has broken down, i have fought all of my life and now i just dont think i have any more fight left in me. Everything fell apart and i lost all motivation to keep going, i have no energy.
So i want my fight back!
All i want is to be happy and the only thing i am really happy with at the moment is my love life, yet that is on the verge of being ruined and the other thing is with my friends. One in particular you know who you are- You keep me sane!!!!
Chaio bella
Monday, March 30, 2009
Compassion
So this is yet another entry, the second for today actually lol
Compassion
It is so hard to find these days, no body likes to show it and to find it in other people around you is just too difficult. You would think the people around you would understand the point of view you are coming from and understand the situation you are in. But to my amazement they dont. Its like they need to know your whole life story and exactly why you are like the way you are. Everything in life has just become too complicated.
The worst for empathy and compassion is men(my opinion) they (more like he) just dont get it, at all, is it really so difficult to just say yeah i know what your going through and give them a hug and be comforting, well obviously yes it is! Thats why im seriously thinking about becoming a lesbian(jokes) because a woman actually knows exactly what you are going through, like with periods and boy troubles and the way that men act ablivious to there own mistakes. Its really starting to get on my nerves.
But i suppose this is the whole lesson of growing up, im only 19 so i guess i have to put up with this crap for so much longer it just isnt funny!!!!
I think i seriously am going to start praying to god for my boyfriend to be electrocuted and turn out like mel gibson out of what woman want because then and only then will my boyfriend truly understand my feelings and what it is like to go through them.
Chioa
Compassion
It is so hard to find these days, no body likes to show it and to find it in other people around you is just too difficult. You would think the people around you would understand the point of view you are coming from and understand the situation you are in. But to my amazement they dont. Its like they need to know your whole life story and exactly why you are like the way you are. Everything in life has just become too complicated.
The worst for empathy and compassion is men(my opinion) they (more like he) just dont get it, at all, is it really so difficult to just say yeah i know what your going through and give them a hug and be comforting, well obviously yes it is! Thats why im seriously thinking about becoming a lesbian(jokes) because a woman actually knows exactly what you are going through, like with periods and boy troubles and the way that men act ablivious to there own mistakes. Its really starting to get on my nerves.
But i suppose this is the whole lesson of growing up, im only 19 so i guess i have to put up with this crap for so much longer it just isnt funny!!!!
I think i seriously am going to start praying to god for my boyfriend to be electrocuted and turn out like mel gibson out of what woman want because then and only then will my boyfriend truly understand my feelings and what it is like to go through them.
Chioa
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